Ladies in the millennium era - Are we the new eligible bachelors?
Just recently I was spending some time with my girlfriends on a girl's night. We planned to stay in and watch some movies instead of going out to town. While we cooked and catch up, a girlfriend of mine was whining about how hard it is to find a decent man. She keep on whining that most of her friends are getting married; but she's somehow not even dating anyone and soon to be 27.
Somehow it hit us and make us wonder, why are we still not married? As we continue cooking, we keep on digging on details for answers. Ana is not even dating anyone; Ily is still happy being single and El is still looking for her perfect match. So, we made the conclusion that we're still not getting married due to the fact that we haven't found the perfect match yet. But why we haven't found them yet?
Then, El started to spill her list of her version of perfect match. She's looking for a tall, light brown man who able to live independently; have his own car and his own house. Meanwhile, Ana is looking for a man with more outdoor and sporty personality. But as for my friend Ily, she don't care at all about the looks or the body; but the man needs to be an independent man who's living on his own; have his own car and not living together with the parents.
As we sat down to eat and watch some movies, we come to one point; are we still not getting married because of there're no eligible independent guy out there? El last boyfriend who happen to last only for 5months; is still living with his parents. And because of his mother is still doing his laundry, they've breakup.
All the four of us are living on our own in our own apartment, eventho it's only rental but we taught ourselves to be more independent. We cooked, cleaned and wake up on our own. And we also go to work to pay the bills. So, why does most of the young man nowadays are so comfortable living with their parents? Even there are some of them who get too comfortable, until they using their parents car like it was their's while they're already 28 and have their own jobs.
So, what actually happened to the guys out there? Are they all getting too comfortable because of the 'internet girlfriends' from the apps? That somehow make them forget about the chapter; to be the cool man who have it all, go to dates and getting married.
Are we ladies, is the new eligible bachelor who have it all? As men getting comfortable with new virtual relationship in his apps?
Goodnight and I wish you've a great Sunday.
Xo, A.
Somehow it hit us and make us wonder, why are we still not married? As we continue cooking, we keep on digging on details for answers. Ana is not even dating anyone; Ily is still happy being single and El is still looking for her perfect match. So, we made the conclusion that we're still not getting married due to the fact that we haven't found the perfect match yet. But why we haven't found them yet?
Then, El started to spill her list of her version of perfect match. She's looking for a tall, light brown man who able to live independently; have his own car and his own house. Meanwhile, Ana is looking for a man with more outdoor and sporty personality. But as for my friend Ily, she don't care at all about the looks or the body; but the man needs to be an independent man who's living on his own; have his own car and not living together with the parents.
As we sat down to eat and watch some movies, we come to one point; are we still not getting married because of there're no eligible independent guy out there? El last boyfriend who happen to last only for 5months; is still living with his parents. And because of his mother is still doing his laundry, they've breakup.
All the four of us are living on our own in our own apartment, eventho it's only rental but we taught ourselves to be more independent. We cooked, cleaned and wake up on our own. And we also go to work to pay the bills. So, why does most of the young man nowadays are so comfortable living with their parents? Even there are some of them who get too comfortable, until they using their parents car like it was their's while they're already 28 and have their own jobs.
So, what actually happened to the guys out there? Are they all getting too comfortable because of the 'internet girlfriends' from the apps? That somehow make them forget about the chapter; to be the cool man who have it all, go to dates and getting married.
Are we ladies, is the new eligible bachelor who have it all? As men getting comfortable with new virtual relationship in his apps?
Goodnight and I wish you've a great Sunday.
Xo, A.
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